Expressing Sympathy



A.     LISTENING SECTION

Task 2. Listen carefully to the recording the teacher plays for you and then answer the questions briefly.


1.      Who are the speakers?
2.      What relationship do the speakers have?
3.      Was the news the speaker got bad or good news?
4.      How was the condition of the mother after tsunami?
5.      Was the mother died?
6.      Why did the mother kill herself?
7.      When did the incident happen?
8.      Where does Ren’s friend come from?
9.      What did Ren’s friend say to express her sadness?
10.  What did Ren say to comfort her friend due to her mother’s passing away?

In pair, read the following dialogue!

Dea      : Hi, what’s the matter? You look so awful today.
Rudy   : I lost my purse on my way to school.
Dea      : That’s too bad. I am sorry to hear that. Have you searched it?
Rudy   : Yes. But, I couldn’t find it. What’s worse is that I had Rp 200,000 in it. It’s all gone! I can’t pay the school tuition now.
Dea      : It’s terrible! Report to the police immediately! It’s also better for you to tell your homeroom teacher about your problem.
Rudy    : Okay. Thanks for your advice.

1.      What are talking about?
2.      What feeling is shown by Dea?
3.      What feeling is shown by Rudy?

Let’s see the expressions in the conversation above. These expressions are used to respond other’s sadness or to show our sympathy. Look at the expressions once again.
1.       That’s too bad. I am sorry to hear that.
2.       It’s terrible!

Sometimes bad things happen. When we hear about bad things that happen to other people, it is a good idea to express our sympathy. This can be difficult as we want to express our concern, but don’t want to be intrusive. Here are some common phrases to help you express sympathy.

Formal
Neutral
Informal
I am most upset to hear that.
What a terrible situation for you!
One should not worry too much.
I do sympathize with you.
I’m sorry to hear about…
My heart goes out to all … during this time of pain.
You will be always in my thoughts and prayers.


O dear! I am sorry. I’m awfully sorry.
What bad luck! That’s a pity!
You must be very upset / annoyed.
I’m sorry to hear that.
I hope you feel better soon.
Please accept my condolences (used when someone close to another has died).

What a pity! That’s awful.
How sad! Poor old you, ……
I’m sorry to hear that.


It is also common to express sympathy in writing. Here are some phrases we can use when writing a sympathy note to someone. Notice that it is common to use the plural ‘we’ and ‘our’ when expressing written sympathy as a way to express in a family.


v  My condolences to the victims of …
v  My heartfelt condolences on your loss.
v  Our thoughts are with you.
v  Thinking of you in your time of loss.
v  We are very saddened to hear of your loss.
v  With deepest sympathy.
v  You have my sincere sympathy.
v  You have our deepest sympathy.


B.     READING SECTION

Task 3. Read the conversation and answer the questions!

Mary  : Hello, John, What’s that? You look dejected. What’s wrong?
John  : My grandma passed away in New York, Mary.
Mary  : I’m terribly sorry to hear that, John. How old was she?
John  : Seventy one this December.
Mary  : Then she wasn’t very old. Had she been ailing for some time?
John  : So she had written in her last letter. She was having a hard time with many complications.
Mary  : When is the funeral?
John  : It must have been over by now.
Mary : I know how you feel. Words can’t comfort you when someone dear to you departs.
  Does your family plan to go to New York?
John  : Yes, we are going there next week to visit her grave.
Mary : Please tell your family my deepest condolence.
John  : Thank you very much, Mary. We really appreciate it.

1.      Why does John look so sad?
2.      Does John attend his grandma’s funeral?
3.      Fill in the blanks with synonyms of the words:

a.       Dejected               : ……….
b.      Ailing                    : ……….
c.       Comfort                : ……….
d.      Grave                 : ……….
e.       Condolence        : ……….

4.      Underline the expression of sympathy you can find in the dialogue.


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Palita Ruhamaningtyas

I am an English teacher in SMA N 1 Pati who love to read and write. -You know my name, not my story. You know what I've done, not what I've been through. If you were on my shoes, you'd fall at the first step.- ^_^

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